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I started therapy this year to become a selfish person
Therapy, people-pleasing, and the uncomfortable work of finally taking up space in my own life
9 hrs ago
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Niamh Duffy
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Everything I Love Right Now (While Avoiding My Potential)
On fearing success, chasing reinvention, and trying to become her one mildly chaotic London day at a time
Apr 21
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Niamh Duffy
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The Problem With Wanting a Village in a World That’s Always Busy
A life update on loneliness, surgery, and realising community isn’t something you stumble into, it’s something you build
Mar 27
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Niamh Duffy
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I Stopped Dressing for the Male Gaze and My Self Confidence Went Down
On attention, invisibility, and the confusing middle ground between wanting to be seen and wanting to be free.
Mar 16
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Niamh Duffy
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Could I date someone who earns less than me?
Why Dating Someone Who Earns Less Isn’t About the Money; It’s About Values, Effort, and Whether They Can Keep Up With Your Life (and Your Gigs)
Feb 23
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Niamh Duffy
25
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My Uterus Is Not Public Policy
On Reform UK, reproductive politics, and the creeping fear that women’s bodies are becoming economic strategy rather than personal choice
Feb 16
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I Want More Time and I’m Annoyed About It
Confessions of someone who wants a slow life but works full time
Jan 26
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Niamh Duffy
22
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The First Week of January Is Not Real Life
On trial days, lunar calendars, and not reinventing yourself before your tea goes cold
Jan 5
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Niamh Duffy
10
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One Year of The 25 Reset
Why I am here, why this exists, and why I am not going anywhere
Jan 2
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Niamh Duffy
7
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The Holiday Lied To Me, But I Still Want The Cottage
Hoping for a Jude Law moment, getting a new job instead.
Dec 12, 2025
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Niamh Duffy
13
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When Everything Turns Golden: 10 Little Joys of Autumn
Hot Drinks, Cold Walks, and the Joy of Doing Nothing
Oct 17, 2025
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Niamh Duffy
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I Want to Do Everything, So I Do Nothing
On being endlessly inspired, chronically overwhelmed, and learning to live somewhere in between
Oct 13, 2025
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Niamh Duffy
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